Are you about to take the plunge into wedding bliss?  Do you think you’ve found your soul mate and ready to live happily ever after?  Many marriage education experts actually caution that when couples believe in the myths of “happily-ever-after” or “love conquers all,” problems in the marital relationship may surface within a short time […]

As someone who grew up and is still growing up in the internet age, I’ve been connected to the web since I was 9 years old.

You hated it, and we’re bringing it back. Things that are better than sex. Backstory: In August, we penned a piece called “12 Things That Are Decidedly Better Than Sex,” which caused quite the uproar (teehee). Fifty-six comments later, the haters are still going strong, and somehow refuse to understand that this was humor meant […]

Many women equate loving a man with giving, submitting to and pleasing. Some women seem as though they have an endless supply of love to give to others, but little to give to themselves.

To snoop, or not to….. In my book The Mean Girls Handbook of Etiquette my co-author and I have a chapter named after a song Kayne West has called “paranoid.” In the song he says “why are you so paranoid, you worry about the wrong things, wrong things.” Every woman is guilty of becoming paranoid in […]

A Florida couple had to go to the pokey after stealing a police car so they could have a QUICKY. Alexander Pratt, 59, and Clara Pearson, 53, jumped into the unmarked police car after they saw the keys in the ignition. They didn’t realize that the car, which is owned by the Palm Beach County […]

Think you’re the best thing ever in bed? Maybe! Or maybe not. Not every thing a woman does is an instant turn on for a man. You could be making classic mistakes you don’t even realize. But not to worry, we’ve got you covered, girls. Here are 10 totally avoidable mistakes women often make in […]

Rebuilding anything is always a laborious task. When you think of what it takes to start something over from scratch, or to reinvent something that already exists, it can cause your stress level to reach dangerous levels. However, there are some things that deserve a makeover, no matter how difficult the task. When two people […]

Imagine a relationship where everyone was honest from the start and one’s truth was honored without being challenged. Imagine a relationship where both parties felt comfortable to say or do anything that he/she wanted and it was respected.  Imagine a relationship where you could be you without apology. It is possible. Recently I was in Philadelphia […]

The chances of a Black woman finding a “Good” Black man are extremely slim, according to a study by Best Black Dating Sites. The study claims that only about 3% of Black men fulfill the criteria of being a good, qualified partner. The criteria was primarily based on data compiled on whether the eligible Black […]

There's something about a capsized marriage that bothers people who are on the outside looking in. These days, after all, it starts to seem like every marriage is just a divorce waiting to happen.

*Eric Benet and his fiancé Manuela Testolini quietly jumped the broom over the weekend. Access Hollywood host Shaun Robinson broke the news via Twitpic – posting a photo of herself posing with the happy couple after the ceremony. Benet, himself, tweeted later, “This is one perfect day!” Benet and Testolini have previously been married; Benet to Halle Berry […]