If the mathematics of marriage is two becoming one, how do you factor in couples that have decided that some temporary division improves the odds of their relationship's longevity?

We all know that relationships can be tough. They begin with an awkward dating period where both persons are on their best behavior. After a few months, those curtains start to unravel and you begin to see shadows of the real person. Men often make a number of relationship blunders during these crucial initial phases, […]

Think you’re the best thing ever in bed? Maybe! Or maybe not. Not every thing a woman does is an instant turn on for a man. You could be making classic mistakes you don’t even realize. But not to worry, we’ve got you covered, girls. Here are 10 totally avoidable mistakes women often make in […]

Rebuilding anything is always a laborious task. When you think of what it takes to start something over from scratch, or to reinvent something that already exists, it can cause your stress level to reach dangerous levels. However, there are some things that deserve a makeover, no matter how difficult the task. When two people […]

Imagine a relationship where everyone was honest from the start and one’s truth was honored without being challenged. Imagine a relationship where both parties felt comfortable to say or do anything that he/she wanted and it was respected.  Imagine a relationship where you could be you without apology. It is possible. Recently I was in Philadelphia […]

We want options in life. So why always keep your dating life constrained? While I am all for having one healthy relationship, that’s not always written in everyone’s cards. So rather than going overboard and finding yourself in a spiderweb of relationships, keep a few things in mind to date freely but effectively. 1. Stay […]

I don’t have a problem with dating White men, but personally I haven’t decided to go searching for my “something new” just quite yet.  Why? Because I love (and prefer) to date black men. Yesterday as a debate began to brew in our office about the politics of interracial dating (as usual) I was struck […]

There's something about a capsized marriage that bothers people who are on the outside looking in. These days, after all, it starts to seem like every marriage is just a divorce waiting to happen.

Relationships.  They are fragile and ever changing…like seasons.  The original story happens; Boy meets girl, girl meets boy, they fall in lust.  The honeymoon phase arises and they cannot get enough of each other.  This is where the “Should we take it to the next level?” question comes about way too soon.  They hop into […]

Your Tango cites studies that say a whopping 70 percent of married men admitted to cheating. That same stat for women was 50 to 60 percent. Ladies aren’t doing much better keeping those vows, eh? Of course no study or poll could give a 100 percent accurate percentage for such a thing and even if […]

We know you all are righteous, up-standing women who would never eva eva eva be so crass as to end a relationship with a man in a less than regal fashion. * giggle * The following list of reckless ways to break up with someone is by no means meant to be a guide, but provide […]

Another day, another high-profile sex scandal. Many Americans yawned when Arnold Schwarzenegger’s extramarital activities hit the headlines a month ago. By now it’s difficult to escape the fatalistic feeling that we’ve seen it all before and will see it all again, and soon. To their credit, though, some Christians took the opportunity to discuss practical […]